Hmmmm...life isn't fair sometimes...or is it so? Let's see...some people seemed to have it all. They have the looks, the youth, tons of money, family....but honestly are they truly happy????? People always feel that they are the unlucky ones including me sometimes...but the bottom line is life is all about how we live it.
When you are struck with an illness....you will start to question "WHY ME?" Oh Dear, Why me??? How am I going to go on....my life and everyone around me will suffer and feel miserable. Is it going to be that way? We have a firm control on ourselves to make it otherwise. Actually we can still be the same chirpy, jovial self or in another word be yourself just as you always have before, during or after the illness...it does not matter.
It all lies within ourselves...I have learnt to live with whatever God has bestowed upon me...good or bad. No one can control what they will get in their life time but they surely have control on how to respond to the situation. Illness is part of life....human life is like a wheel of fortune... we were born to live life to the fullest through ups and downs....
Me...I am adjusting well to my new lifestyle....happy and contented. Dearest Hubby is still as loving as ever, the kids are happy and adorable....no one in the family felt miserable. We feel like we are one of the lucky ones to have a stabil and wonderful loving family.
I think God is being very fair to me...through the sickness and all I am still able to enjoy my life as before. Through the sickness I am able to value life to the fullest.
Life is short, I am enjoying every moments of my life now.....honestly I never felt sorry for myself...NO...NO and I hate people who felt sorry for me. They should be proud of me instead. I never let myself wallow in self pity.
I am proud to say that I AM STRONG, I AM HAPPY, I AM STILL ME Nory !!!!! Nothing has changed.... the only downside of it all is may be I will not be able to travel overseas as often anymore...yeah...!!!!!! Holiday in Malaysia won't be so bad after all, hmmm kids...!!!
Tuesday, July 15, 2008
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Sis,
I am very very proud of you. No words to say. I am just so proud of you. I wish I could have the strength like yours.
Thank you for your kind words. Thats what life is all about...thick and thin, rain or shine, ups and downs...through health and sickness!!!
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